Reminder for the heart

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What is dating to me? Dating is a way to test and gauge a relationship’s romantic potential. It has a low level of commitment; it is temporal. When you date someone, you’re expressing an interest to be their lover; when you date someone, you act like a “couple”, with the awareness that there is nothing definite in the relationship that entails a serious commitment.

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October 7, 2009 at 3:21 am

The Secret to Happiness

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43. To remain in love for a lifetime, therapists advise couples to listen actively to your partner, ask questions, give answers, appreciate, stay attractive, grow intellectually, include your partner, give him/her privacy, be honest and trustworthy, tell your mate what you need, accept his/her shortcomings, give respect, never threaten to leave, say “no” to adultery, don’t assume the relationship will last forever, and cultivate variety.

Source.

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September 27, 2009 at 7:04 am

juillet, le quart

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It hurts yet it is such a feeling that cages one in for as long as they yearn for the gems they have dropped along the way, making them blind and fearful of the diamonds out of their grasp, shining and waiting.

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September 27, 2009 at 5:44 am

Present

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So you think “staying in the present moment” is the best way to live your life? The key to happiness and/or contentment? The answer to (psychological) suffering? The bliss of ignorance?

Here you go—the best time of one’s life:

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September 10, 2009 at 2:55 am

Doom

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On my desktop

On my desktop

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August 29, 2009 at 4:46 am

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